Wednesday, November 16, 2005

Affectation

Walking past the woman gabbing on her cell, I hear her say:

"I am so happy for you! I am so excited for you guys!"

I always find that sentiment forced and unnatural. I believe close family members are genuine in their feelings, but when friends or mere acquaintances say that to me I am not sure if their joy (at my good fortune) is feigned or sincere.

In fact I think it is normal to be bummed out. (Note to self: Keep stories of good fortune private! You won't disappoint anyone!)

It is possible that such expressions of delight and happiness are completely honest. I just think that in the vast majority of cases they are also accompanied by a tinge of envy.

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